
For those of you who do not know me, my name is Jesse Bouman.
I am a former Madison @er.
I recently completed a year long internship in
Thailand through Aiesec.
I saw that my blog (http://thejessebouman.blogspot.com) was linked to this blog a while ago and would like to thank anyone who took the time to read it.
I’d like to impart a little knowledge from the experiences I had during my travel to anyone who is interested in traveling abroad.
Perhaps this is stating the obvious (since everyone here is an @er), but I would like to encourage everyone to travel when they have the opportunity. Where ever your travels take you, I would like to endorse a method of travel that I found to be one of the greatest experiences I’ve ever had. I’m here to promote traveling alone.
Traveling a
lone can be a liberating experience. There isn’t anyone to tell you what to do, when to do it, or where to it. You are your own guide. The options are limitless. My favorite aspect of traveling alone was variety of individuals I met. I experienced a gamut of personalities and occupations. I met doctors, accountants, fighter jet pilots, teachers, railroad conductors, taxi drivers, nomads, retirees among others. In Malaysia I met a Ukrainian woman who hitchhiked her way to from Ukraine to China, took a train to Laos, and hitchhiked her way to Malaysia and predominately stayed at temples for lodging. Where ever I went there was a new character to meet and a new experience to be shared with a complete stranger.
Travelers have this unique bond of friendship where ever they go, with whoever they meet. Everyone is friendly and has a story to tell. It’s plausible that one could experience this feeling of camaraderie with a travel buddy or a group of friends, but I found that it was less likely. Groups of friends and couples tend to keep to themselves. I met many friendly coupl
es along my journey, but they were more apt to keep to themselves. I even met someone in Malaysia and traveled with her for a week after we met. However, our communication was primarily with each other rather than interacting with new individuals. Traveling alone forced me to approach strangers and begin conversations. Excursions are always more entertaining and cheaper with a group. Some of the best times I had traveling were at dinner, with a group of people I just met. We would sit and talk for hours, enjoying each other’s company. My cultural understanding grew immensely from these dinners. Your knowledge and appreciation of culture isn’t limited to the country you are traveling in, but rather the people whose company you are in. I had fascinating conversations comparing and contrasting culture, politics, pop culture, etc with people from several nations (Japan, England, Australia, Sri Lanka, Estonia, Netherlands, Belgium, Kenya to name a few). Individuals educate everyone else about their homelands and often times everyone tries to compare it to the current country of travel and previous countries as well. I will always have fond memories of those dinners with people I will probably never see again.
I know my solo travels forced me to grow in a way that I would not have had with a travel partner.
My ability to network with professionals was enhanced by this experience, which is a valuable life long skill.
I am a huge advocate of traveling alone and hope some of you take the opportunity to do so.
If you have any questions about my travels in
Southeast Asia or the international Aiesec experience feel free to email me,
jesse.bouman@gmail.com